Homophobia is a dislike or fear of someone who is lesbian, gay, bisexual or transsexual (LGBT). At its most benign it involves passive resentment of LGBT men and women. In its most destructive form it involves active victimisation. Such attitudes can also affect anyone who is perceived to be homosexual or who does not conform to stereotypical standards of masculine or feminine behaviour.

Homophobic bullying is often present in an environment that fails to challenge and respond to homophobia. It can take the form of rumour mongering, social isolation, text messaging and frightening looks, as well as the more obvious forms of bullying. It does not just affect young people who identify as LGBT. In schools and in the community homophobic bullying can directly affect any young person whose life choices, interests or needs do not conform to accepted gender norms.

(Adapted from Stand Up For Us. Challenging Homophobia in Schools DfES 2004)

It is often the case that young people will not receive parental support when experiencing homophobic bullying as they unable to articulate to parents that they are LGBT. Even when parents are aware that their child is lesbian or gay parental support and acceptance is not always guaranteed.

Unlike other types of bullying homophobic bullying may be accepted or even encouraged and supported by family members and peer groups.

If you are at school you might also want to check out your school's bullying policy, which will outline possible procedures and sources of help.